- The Ornament: The Carpenter’s Tools / The White Lily
- The Scripture: Matthew 1:18–25
The Surface Reading
In the Nativity play, Joseph usually doesn’t have any lines. He stands stoically in the background holding a lantern while Mary does the heavy lifting. We view him as the “nice guy”—the quiet, supportive husband who went along for the ride.
We read the line “Joseph, being a righteous man” and assume it just means he went to synagogue and paid his taxes. We see his role as passive: he just had to not run away.
A Closer Look
Guide: Raymond Brown (The Birth of the Messiah)
To understand the stakes, we have to look at the honor/shame culture of the first century.
When Mary turns up pregnant, it is a public scandal. According to the strict interpretation of the Law (Deuteronomy 22), she has committed adultery.
Scholar Raymond Brown notes that Joseph is caught in a terrible dilemma. As a “righteous man” (dikaios), he is obligated to obey the Law and separate himself from sin.
The “righteous” thing to do was to expose her. A public divorce was the standard way for a man to say, “I am innocent of this sin.”
When the text says Joseph planned to “dismiss her quietly,” he was already trying to find a loophole in the Law. He was leaning toward mercy.
But then the Angel asks him to do the unthinkable: Marry her.
To marry Mary is to publicly accept the baby as his own. It is to effectively say to the village, “I am taking this shame upon myself.” It destroys his reputation to save hers.
The Pattern of Scandal
Guide: Pete Enns (The Bible for Normal People)
Why was Joseph ready to do this?
Pete Enns points out that we have to look at the list of names before the story starts.
Matthew’s genealogy includes four women: Tamar, Rahab, Ruth, and Bathsheba.
All four were associated with “sexual scandal.” All four were outsiders. Yet, all four were essential to the line of David.
Joseph likely knew his family history. He knew that in his family, God often showed up in the “messy” situations.
When he wakes up from the dream, he decides to break the social code. He chooses compassion over code. He chooses the messy reality of love over the clean reputation of legalism.
The Adoption
And here is the most crucial part: By naming the baby “Jesus” (v. 25), Joseph performs a legal act of adoption.
Remember, the genealogy traces the line of David through Joseph, not Mary. If Joseph walks away, Jesus is legally an illegitimate child with no claim to the throne.
By staying, Joseph grafts Jesus into the line of David.
And the name he chooses matters. “Jesus” is the Greek form of the Hebrew “Joshua.”
Just as the first Joshua led the Israelites into the Promised Land, this new Joshua will lead the people into a new kind of freedom. Joseph isn’t just naming a baby; he is naming the mission.
The Question
We often think “righteousness” means being morally superior. But Joseph suggests that true righteousness looks like risking your reputation to stand beside someone the world is shaming.
Is there a situation in your life where “following the rules” is in conflict with “loving the person”?
Are you willing to lose some of your own status to offer protection to someone else?

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